Sacraments

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Baptism/Wedding/Funeral               $350.00                          $300.00

Priest*                                                 $200.00                          $150.00

Soloist*                                               $150.00                          $100.00

Organist*                                            $150.00                          $100.00

Deacon*                                             $100.00                           $50.00

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   Priest*                                                $150.00                          $100.00

Deacon*                                               $75.00                             $50.00

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Use of Cultural Hall (maximum of 4 hours)*         $50.00/hour       $40.00/hour

Custodial (clean up)*                                           $100.00                 $75.00

*Minimum suggested donations

Marriage

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Armenian Apostolic Orthodox Church
prepared by Fr. Tateos R. Abdalian, Director,
Department of Mission Parishes
Diocese of the Armenian Church
September 2009
Marriage is one of the seven basic Sacraments of the Armenian Orthodox Church. It is directly related to the
experience of being God’s people and with the mystical experience of membership in the Church. This
Sacrament, which blesses the union of a man and woman, begins with the partners themselves belonging to the
Body of Christ, His Holy Church, and their sharing in the fullness of its liturgical life of prayer. Their witness
to the Armenian Orthodox Faith becomes visible in their frequent reception of Holy Communion. Therefore, it
is at the Divine Liturgy that they can together experience their union in Christ the Lord as husband and wife forever.
It is significant that in the early Christian Church the marriage of a couple was validated by attending the Divine
Liturgy, partaking of Holy Communion together, and finally, receiving a blessing from the bishop who offered
a simple prayer for their life together. The formal rites of marriage as celebrated today evolved from these early practices.
Indeed, the free consent of the couple, both then and now, is essential in order to receive the sacramental
blessing; not only their free consent, but also much more. The gathered body of the Church, the sharing of the
Eucharist, the experience of prayer at the Divine Liturgy as well as the blessing of the Priest – all these together
represented Christ in the celebration of this event as “sacrament” and were important. With our Lord at the
center of this event, marriage becomes truly a Christian celebration, giving birth to a union that is sanctified,
blessed and hallowed by the grace of God. The initial practice of Eucharistic sharing in marriage as the central
experience of faith is still preserved by the Armenian Orthodox as the couple, both communicant members of
the church, are instructed to receive the Sacrament of Penance prior to and Holy Communion on the Sunday preceding their marriage.
This prenuptial sharing of the Body and Blood of Christ clearly shows that marriage is not only contractual or a
legal validation of a man and a woman but more so a true celebration of the entire church, i.e., the couple, the
congregation of believers, and the Priest who are themselves all witnesses to a new life centered in the Eucharist.
Today, this Eucharistic tradition is confronted with many challenges. In our pluralistic society the great
diversity of religious faith confessions makes the ‘ideal’ of a marriage between Armenian Orthodox partners
less a reality in the Church community. The Church now encounters the condition of a ‘mixed marriage’; a
marriage between an Armenian Orthodox and a Christian from another faith confession. Such situations do not
change the general meaning of marriage with regard to its intent, but certainly present problems when celebrating the rites of blessing.
It should be understood that mixed marriages are neither encouraged nor forbidden by the Armenian Orthodox
Church. Sacramental blessing by the church, granted through the person of the Officiant Priest, could only be
administered and celebrated for those who are baptized Christians. Canonically there is no separate liturgical
rite for an Armenian Orthodox and a non- Christian.

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As stated, mixed marriages are those between Armenian Orthodox and persons from Christian confessions that
acknowledge belief in the Holy Trinity and the Divinity of Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour. The celebration of
the Sacrament of Crowning, as it is traditionally called, is allowed for a mixed faith union out of concern for the
couple’s well being inviting them both to share in prayer and affirm, however possible, their common faith
within the rite without compromise of personal or Church integrity. This practice of ‘oekonomia’ thus allows
both to share as much as possible. It should remain clear that the acceptance and participation of a non-
Armenian Orthodox Christian in the marriage rite does not imply his/her conversion, nor does it grant him/her
the privilege to actively receive the other Sacraments of the Church. It is only by the Sacrament of Chrismation
that one becomes a member of the faith community; after proper catechizes before or after marriage.
The key to the success of a mixed-marriage, from the day of the ceremony to the eventual Christian formation
of family, and the interpersonal relationship of the couple as well as their extended relationships with friends
and family members, is the extra sensitivity to the spirit of love and sacrifice. Armenian Orthodox partners
should make every effort to be sensitive to the feelings, beliefs, practices and perspectives of their spouses. It is
likewise hoped that the non-Armenian spouse will do the same.
There are basic standards that exist in all Oriental Orthodox Churches regarding the meaning of marriage and its
sanctification by the Church in the office of her priesthood and by the witness of her faithful. However, even
within this unified bodies of ancient Churches there are differing interpretations and practices of these standards.
For example, the Coptic and Ethiopian Churches require re-baptism of Protestants or conversion to Oriental
Orthodoxy from Roman Catholicism and Byzantine (Chalcedonian) Orthodoxy. Such a requirement precludes
altogether the existence of mixed marriages in these Churches. The Armenian and Syrian Churches, however,
never mandate conversion or practice re-baptism, provided that the baptism of the non-Oriental Orthodox has
been admitted with the Trinitarian formula. In all cases, the Christian formation of children is expected to
develop in the particular Church in which the marriage was blessed. No promissory document must be signed.

The Meaning of Marriage
Christian marriage is essentially a meeting of two beings in love, a human love that can be transformed by the
sacramental grace of the Holy Spirit into an eternal bond, indissoluble even by death. Marriage in the Armenian
Church is a Sacrament (in Armenian, Khorhoort, translated as “Mystery”) directly relating to the experience of
the faithful being the mystical body of the Church. Marriage is also a sign of God’s Kingdom, for it begins to
restore the unity of mankind, broken by sin, and, represents a greater mystery, the unity of redeemed mankind in Jesus Christ.
Scripture teaches God created humanity as male and female with the intent that they should join and be together
as one. Christ blessed the wedding at Cana with His presence and performed a miracle, which assisted in the
joyous celebration of the event. The Letters of St. Paul to the Corinthians and Ephesians become the basis for the Christian teaching on marriage.
The Christian doctrine of marriage is a joyful responsibility giving legitimate satisfaction to the body and to the
soul showing what it means to be truly man, created in the image and likeness of God.

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Guidelines in the Administration of
Holy Marriage or Crowning
in the Armenian Apostolic Orthodox Church
Compiled in part from the Canons and practices of the Armenian Church the directives issued by the Primates of the Diocese of
the Armenian Church (Eastern), and local conditions.
Prior to any other arrangements being made, couples are advised to contact the Church office at least eight to
ten months prior to the date of a wedding to confirm the availability of the Officiating Priest and sanctuary. In
the situation of Mission Parishes without a permanent sanctuary, the couple need contact the Parish Council
who in turn will contact the Diocese and/or the assigned visiting Pastor. If possible, the couple is also asked to
meet with the Officiating Priest for premarital counseling on at least two or three occasions.
All weddings are to follow the Canons of the Armenian Apostolic Orthodox Church. It is the responsibility of
the couple to present a valid license to the Officiating Priest prior to the service.
The wedding ceremony is to take place in the church proper.
Both parties must be baptized and chrismated Christians, and, at least one must be a confirmed member of the
Armenian Apostolic Orthodox Church.
All members of the wedding party who are to enter into the chancel are to be Christians. The Brother-in-the-
Cross (Khatchnyekhpayr), who participates in the ceremony by holding a cross over the heads of the bride and
groom, is to be a baptized and chrismated communicant member of the Armenian Church.
When either party has been divorced from a living spouse, a dispensation from the Diocesan Primate, based
upon legal documents presented to the Officiating Priest, is necessary. This information is to be provided to the
Officiating Priest well in advance of the wedding date in order to secure the Primate's permission.
No marriage can be solemnized in the Armenian Church when it is the intent that a second religious ceremony
be held in another church or any other place. The reverse is also not acceptable. By the same token, a marriage
done in a civil court is not sacramental and requires the proper blessing of the Church in order for it to be
considered a Sacrament.
Music played prior to the ceremony, the processional and recessional, is to be liturgical in origin and is
ordinarily selected from the Armenian Church hymnal. Popular/secular music is deemed inappropriate. Final
decisions shall be made in consultation with the Officiating Priest.
Invitation of other participating clergy must first be discussed with the Officiating Priest who, upon approval,
shall make all arrangements of invitation for such through his office. If the guest priest is a member of the
Armenian Church Clergy, he may be invited to share in the service. Clergy of other denominations shall be
allowed participation in extent to the faith traditions of the Armenian Orthodox Church. The same applies to
deacons, soloists and other participants. The Officiating Priest shall make all necessary arrangements for the
deacon, organist and/or soloist, and will provide the couple with all additional details and forms regarding
donations to the church, honorariums and fees. If the Officiating Priest or other clergy are to be invited to the
reception, a wedding invitation properly is to be sent.
Decorations and flower arrangements for the church or altar and their placement should first be discussed with
the Officiating Priest. No furniture in the sanctuary shall be moved from its place. No nails, screws, or
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adhesive tape may be used. Open light candles that may be potential fire hazards will not be allowed. The
Officiating Priest, his designee, or the local church personnel may remove decorations contrary to the above in
advance of the service.
Wedding rehearsals shall be arranged with the Officiating Priest. All bridal party members who are to
participate in the ceremony are asked to be present.
Photographs and/or video recordings may be taken at any time during the service. The bridal couple should
instruct the photographers to speak with the Officiating Priest prior to the service for instruction. At no time
may photographers or guests ascend the steps of the Altar bema area or be at the altar itself.
The attire of the bride and her attendants must be tasteful in accord with proper attire for attendance at worship.
Low cut gowns, short pants and such are deemed inappropriate. Keeping in mind that during the ceremony,
either wedding braids (narods) will be tied around the heads of the couple, or, crowns will be placed upon their
heads, bridal head covering should be such as to accommodate these. Hats cannot be worn.
In preparation of their new life together, the couple is encouraged to come before the Officiating Priest for
individual confession and the reception of Holy Communion, prior to the wedding ceremony.
Weddings may not take place on Sunday mornings, during Great Lent or Holy Week, or on the five major feast
days: Epiphany, January 6; Easter; The Feast of the Transfiguration; The Feast of the Assumption of Mary the
Mother of God; and The Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross.
The Armenian Rite
The Armenian Church requires that a Priest be the minister of the Sacrament, as he, in the
name and with the authority of the Diocesan Bishop, brings the marriage into being by
conferring upon the couple, the blessings of the Church. Each action accomplished in the
service is done to emphasis the relationship of oneness of the couple to each other and to
the Church body.
The Blessing of Rings
The ring has been a symbol of faithfulness from the earliest of biblical times, both of God
to man and of man to his bond of marriage. As the circle is the perfect shape symbolizing
eternity, so the love and faithfulness of bridegroom and bride to each other is also to be the same. As the rings
are blessed, they are placed on the third finger of the left hand with the words: For the bridegroom;
“The king shall rejoice in Thy strength, O Lord, and in Thy salvation he shall be exceedingly glad.”
And for the bride;
“The maiden shall be led unto the king after him, and the maidens, her companions that follow her, shall be
brought unto him.”
The Joining of the Right Hands and The Exhortation
The Priest joins the right hand of the bride to the right hand of the bridegroom, recalling the oneness of Adam
and Eve. He places his hand over theirs symbolizing the sanctifying blessing of their union, proclaiming
”…Wherefore them that God has joined together, let no man put asunder.”
The Vows
The bridegroom and bride are asked to respond three times to the inquiry of the priest. They each state their
willingness to assume their proper roles as husband and wife in the context of St. Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians.
The bridegroom is asked if he will be lord to this woman unto death. By his yes he promises to give of himself
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in total love and faithfulness to his spouse as Christ gave to his bride, the Church, in total love, even unto death.
The bride is asked if she will be obedient to this man, even unto death. Her yes testifies to her willingness to be
obedient to her husband, as the faithful are to be obedient to the Lord as the head of the Body, the Church.
Lordship and obedience are dynamics of a special covenant and expression of a sacrificial love, enduring even
to eternity. In no way does it suppose a worldly master/servant relationship, but rather that of Jesus as Lord and
Master who gave of himself as servant to the world.
The Reading from Holy Scripture
The Scripture readings include the most revealing sections of the New Testament relative to marriage. The
important point made by Paul in the Epistle to the Ephesians is that of the union of Christ with the Church, His
Body, is the model – the absolute model – of the relationship between husband and wife. Marriage as a
Sacrament is the introduction and the transposition of man-woman relationship into the already Kingdom of
God, where Christ and the Church are one body. The Epistle gives further lucidity to the promises made earlier
of the man and woman on being lord and obedient.
The Crowning
The weddings chaplets placed upon the bridegroom and the bride are of Biblical origin. Traditionally a sign of
victory in athletic competition, St. Paul writes; “Every athlete in training submits to strict discipline; he does so
in order to be crowned with a crown that will not last; but we do it for one that will last forever.” (I Cor. 9:25)
Thus the chaplets become a symbol of eternal reward for righteousness. The prayer recalls the marriages of the
Holy couples of Israel, asking God to place the bridegroom and bride in the company of these ancestors of
Christ, to bestow upon them the same blessings they received as God’s chosen. The Priest beseeches God to
“make their marriage fruitful with offspring.” God continues to act through human creative fertility; the
“Temple of His body” is still being built and child bearing is participation in the Mystery of Christ. Childbirth
and the raising of children are indeed a great joy and God’s blessing. In giving life to others, man consciously
imitates God’s creative act. The Gospel is read of the marriage in Cana of Galilee. The changing of water into
wine points to a transfiguration of the old to the new, a passage from death to life. It announces the possibility
of transforming the natural order of things into a joyful celebration of God’s presence among men.
The Common Cup
Wine is a gift of God to man and symbolic of life itself. Wine is something that makes us happy, something
that sparkles, is used medicinally, and is sweet. That same wine that makes us happy can make us sad, can
become flat and dull, can make us sick, and can go sour. It depends on how we use it. The couple shares in this
common cup, as they are to share in the joys and difficulties of life together.
The Final Blessing
After the offering of the “Lord’s Prayer”, the newly married couple receives the blessing of the Church, sending
them into the world to now live as husband and wife, king and queen of their kingdom and family.
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Armenian Orthodox/Roman Catholic Marriages**
**(Adapted from the document “Guideline for Oriental Orthodox / Roman Catholic Marriages [revised June 1993] by the Reverend
Father Garabed Kochakian and Very Reverend Chorepiscopus John Meno)
Before focusing on these particular issues, a general overview of the understanding of a Roman
Catholic/Armenian Orthodox marriage, from a Roman Catholic viewpoint, would be helpful to clearly set basic
guidelines for the Armenian Orthodox.
The Roman Church views as essential the following steps for the blessing of a marriage, to be in complete
harmony with her church order.
1. The pastors of both parties involved should conduct proper instruction for marriage so that there are no
misgivings or misunderstandings before the Church blesses the marriage.
2. If the marriage is to be celebrated in the Armenian Orthodox Church, the Roman Catholic Church must
grant a dispensation from the impediment of ‘mixed-religion’. This document notes that the Orthodox
rite is a ‘valid substitute’ in the eyes of Rome. This form grants the permission of the Bishop through
the legislative body of the Roman Catholic Church, the Marriage Tribunal, on the condition of the
following statement to which the Catholic party must assent.
I reaffirm my faith in Jesus Christ, and with God’s help, intent to continue living that faith in the
Catholic Church.
I PROMISE to do all in my power to share the faith I have received with our children by having
them baptized and reared* as Catholic.
*(receiving all other Sacraments of the Roman Church)
[This is an observance of the discipline of the Roman Church]
3. Regardless of whether the sacramental rite is celebrated in a Roman or Orthodox sanctuary, the Catholic
priest with the Bishop’s consent may invite an Oriental (Armenian) Orthodox clergyman to be present at the
Catholic service and offer a prayer or he himself may respond to an invitation to offer a blessing in an Oriental
Orthodox Church.
4. Both churches should record the marriage in their sacramental registries.
As indicated in marriages between Armenian Orthodox and Roman Catholic Christians, it should be noted
that the Roman Church recognizes the validity of the marriage as Sacrament when celebrated by an
Armenian Orthodox clergyman.
Also it is important to remember that the Roman Catholic priest, in all weddings, serves as the witness of
the Church while he observes the bride and bridegroom impart/administer/celebrate the sacrament upon
each other. * The couple is considered to be ministers of the Sacrament of Marriage. Such an
understanding is not theologically consonant regarding the general administration of the sacraments for the
Armenian Orthodox who perceives the priest, the representative of the Bishop who is himself the fullness of
the Church, as both liturgically and canonically the chief dispenser of God’s grace, the celebrant and sole
sacramental minister.
*(This theological teaching with the Roman Catholic Church regarding marriage has evolved within
only the past three centuries. It is only since 1970 that the new Roman Catholic rite has been in use in
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which the participatory action of both the bride and bridegroom legitimate the sacrament itself.)
We have discussed the church as witness in the varied theological explanations of the Orthodox and Catholic
understandings. It is necessary to address the issue of the laity as witness to the sacramental blessing of
marriage and their participation in the ceremony itself.
The lay witnesses in the ceremony of blessing are the Best Man and the Maid/Matron of Honor. In all the
Oriental Orthodox Churches, the Best Man should himself be a member of the faith community. In the
Armenian and Syrian Orthodox tradition, the primary major witness is the Best Man or more appropriately, the
Brother-in-the-Cross, for during the ceremony of both Churches, he holds a Cross between the couple (Syrian)
or over their heads (Armenian). In the Armenian Church, the Brother-in-the-Cross serves as baptismal
godfather of the child(ren) of the couple. This, however, is a national custom and not a theological regulation or
requirement.
The Validity of Sacrament vs. Validity of Marriage
There is no question with regard to the validity of the Sacrament of Marriage when it is celebrated and blessed
in an Oriental Orthodox sanctuary with an Orthodox priest officiating.
When an Oriental (Armenian) Orthodox/Roman Catholic couple is united in Holy Matrimony in a Roman
Catholic ceremony, certain questions for the Armenian Orthodox arise relative to the full sacramental validity.
The sacramentality of the service would not be a question if an Armenian Orthodox priest were present at the
ceremony and offered prayers legitimating the union of the couple at an appropriate point during the service.
His presence and active participation would then satisfy the action of the “Church” as bestowing the
sacramental blessing.
However, if there were no Oriental (Armenian) Orthodox clergy present at the celebration of the Catholic
ceremony, the question as to the sacramental validity arises. There is no question regarding the validity of
marriage, but concern as to the authenticity and legitimacy of the sacrament as understood by the Armenian
Orthodox Church would exist. The marriage would appear to be deficient in regard to the Orthodox form and
the theological concept of sacrament as Grace bestowed through the persona of the priest.
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It is hoped that this information will serve as a valuable guide to both Armenian Orthodox and Roman Catholic
couples who are preparing for the Sacrament of Marriage. Focusing upon your common aspects of Christian
faith and tradition rather than the issues that divide them, will enable you to establish a basic foundation of a
spiritually healthy and meaningful Christ-centered relationship.
The decision and choice of living out the faith within the tradition your union has been sacramentally blessed is
an important consideration, particularly in regard to family faith formation. Though Eucharistic unity between
Roman Catholics and Oriental Orthodox is not presently a reality, this in no manner minimizes the respect that
should be extended toward each other’s church nor does it preclude, at the least, the sharing of a similar
Christian faith. Nonetheless, affirming a commitment to a faith praxis, that is to be lived out, is the major
objective of the priest(s) who shall bless this holy union of a man and woman and for the sake of their children.

Baptism

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Baptism Application

BAPTISM, CHRISMATION AND HOLY COMMUNION AS THE SACRAMENTS OF INITIATION ACCORDING TO THE ARMENIAN APOSTOLIC ORTHODOX CHURCH.


The word ‘baptism’ is derived from a Greek word which means ‘washing by entering the water.’ The word ‘christening’ means ‘to become or to make someone a Christian.’ ‘Christmation’ means ‘anointing with Chrism’, i.e. with holy oil or Miuron. The Armenian word for baptism is Mkrtel, Mkrtut’iun. The word k’nunk is also in common use, meaning ‘sealing’ (with Miuron).
Baptism, Chrismation and Holy Communion are the most important Mysteries or Sacraments of the Church.
The Order of Baptism of the Armenian Church, as that of other Orthodox Churches, combines all three of these mysteries together with certain related Sacraments, which complete the sacred rite of Christian Initiation.
Why do we baptize?
The Lord Jesus himself received Baptism and Christmation in the river Jordan at the hands of St. John the Forerunner and thus showed his solidarity with sinful men. (Matthew 3:16-18; Mark 1:9-11; Luke 3:21-22).
Our Lord expected his followers to be baptized with the Baptism with which he was baptized, (Mark 10:38) and so instructed his disciples to do likewise. (Matthew 28:1-9). The church thus faithfully and diligently observed Christ’s ordinance to baptize all those who wanted to enter into his Kingdom (Acts 2:38. Romans 6:3-4; I Corinthians 1:16-2:13; Galatians 3:27; Ephesians 4:5; Colossians 2:12; I Peter 3:21). Without Baptism, a person cannot obtain salvation (John 3:5).
Baptism is performed only once. The church’s Creed declares that there is only one Baptism so long as it has been administered in a manner in which its essential conditions are fulfilled, that is with water and the invocation of the Holy Trinity – Father, Son and Holy Spirit. It is not to be repeated and is valid for all Christians who form the one fellowship in Christ.
Why do we baptize infants?
An infant is not conscious of what takes place at his Christening. Yet, as in all the other spheres of his growing life, his parents take upon themselves the responsibility of bringing up their child in a way that they believe is best for him. They make a commitment with a view to rearing the child in the faith of their fathers.
Godparent(s) declare the infant’s faith on his behalf and declare to watch over the child, to see that he receives proper Christian training in the Orthodox faith of the Armenian Church, to instruct him and to correct him, and, if necessary, to help and protect him as a father or mother would. And, above all, to pray for him.
Thus the child is taken into the company of believers, where what is affected in Baptism and Chrismation gradually unfolds in his soul. He is put on the path leading to Christian perfection. As the child clings during his immaturity to his parents and receives nourishment and care from them, so also he clings, during his formation years, to his Mother Church wherein he is born anew and receives the nourishments of the faith.
A child brought to Baptism receives all the three great mysteries necessary for salvation and becomes a full Christian through one continuous sacred act. For the Church will not set age limits for the salvation of man through God’s grace.
As the child grows, gradually becoming independent and assuming responsibility for his own life and conduct, spiritually and in all other respects, he becomes free to accept or reject what he has received as an infant. We must keep in mind that the Christian who does not keep the vows of Baptism, i.e. who does not love and worship God but makes himself a slave of vices and sins, is a Christian and child of God only in name. Our Lord warns us of this self-deception and will not accept such individuals on the Day of Judgment (Matthew
7:21-23). St. Paul calls unworthy Christians the enemies of Christ (Philippians 3:18-19).
What is Chrismation?
Chrismation or Confirmation is the sacramental or mystical invocation of sealing by the Holy Spirit whom the neophyte receives after his Baptism. Through this act, one becomes engrafted and integrated into the Body of Christ and a participant in its life. Thus, through the Seal of Chrismation, a Christian is assured of the power of the Spirit and of resurrection. Chrismation is the Pentecost of the new Christian as well as the anointing of the neophyte into the royal priesthood of the faithful (I Peter 2:9).
Why also Holy Communion?
Holy Communion nourishes and sustains the spiritual life of a Christian who is continuously renewed with the power of the Holy Spirit whereby his bond of union with Christ Jesus is maintained. As a Baptized and Chrismated member of the Armenian Church, the child is now entitled to the joy of participation in the Holy Sacraments of which the greatest is the Holy Eucharist, to complete the initial steps of his journey toward the true life of salvation. (John 6:54-55).
Guidelines for Families in the Administration of the Sacraments of Holy
Baptism and Christmation
The Service Itself
Prior to any other arrangements being made, the date for the ceremony is to be set in consultation with the Pastor and normally takes place within 40 days of the birth. This is to insure his and the Church’s availability.
The baptismal sponsor of the neophyte who responds to the questions posed by the priest performing the baptism must be a communicant member – baptized and confirmed – of the Armenian Apostolic Orthodox Church. Traditionally this has been the privilege of men only who served as godfather of the child. Recently, the Church has granted this privilege to women to serve as baptismal sponsors or, godmothers. If parents wish for the godfather or godmother be a person of another Christian denomination, then the other godparent must be a member of the Armenian Church and must be present at the ceremony.
When Selecting godparents.
When selecting a Baptismal Sponsor(s) for your child, the individual(s) is to be a member in good standing of the Armenian Church for, according to the teachings and canons of our Church, it is he (or she) who is to see to the nurturing of the child’s faith as an Armenian Orthodox Christian. Parents are to take care in choosing devoted, faithful, practicing members of the Armenian Church for this responsibility and privilege. Baptismal godparents, conversely, cannot be indifferent about their awesome responsibilities and should also give prayerful consideration before accepting.
During the ceremony the Priest shall ask the Child’s Sponsor, ‘What does this child request’?
The Sponsor shall answer: Faith, hope, love and baptism, (Havadk, Hooys, Ser, yev Mgurdoutiun)
To be baptized and justified, to be cleansed of sins, to be freed from demons and to serve God.
The Priest shall say: ‘Be it unto thee according to thy faith.’
It is the right of any child to be baptized, regardless of the parent’s marital status, providing the child is presented to the Armenian Church by the parents with the specific intention and desire of the child’s baptism and confirmation.
The Sacraments of Baptism and Chrismation are to take place in the church proper. In cases of a medical emergency where the child is born premature or is seriously ill, the baptism may be performed in the hospital or at home.
An adult who wishes to receive Chrismation or, not having been baptized, both Baptism and Chrismation, is normally first required to receive proper instruction as to the teachings of the Armenian Apostolic Orthodox church prior to the administration of the sacraments.
On the day of the ceremony, the family will need to bring to Church for the child:
A large white towel to wrap about the child; A new white outfit to be worn after the ceremony.
When the child is to be bathed for the first time at home, the water of the washing should be poured into the soil directly rather and not down the drain into a water waste system. The reason being that any trace of the Holy Miuron should not be mixed with unclean water.
The Parish Council of your community has created a schedule of suggested donations to the church for the baptismal service and will be provided to families.